The subject line just appeared on its own. That’s what I said when I had to make a toast at my daughter’s wedding. I realize that when you have had a few glasses of wine it sounds pretty good. The reality is I haven’t really got a clue how to do that. “Love” is a hard thing to define. There is the emotion, but then there are actions that it can inspire, some good, and some bad.
I think that, if I were being generous in my interpretation of what I meant by that statement, I would say, whenever unsure, chose the kindest and most generous assessment because that creates the best environment for actions of unselfish heroics. I think that people who love unselfishly always end up heroes, though perhaps only known to a small circle of friends and family.
Of course I could be confusing apples and oranges. Benedict Cumberbatch can sort it though! Click on his name to see him sort it out with a little help from the Count. (What a sweetie!)